All We Are

We won't say our goodbyes you know it's better that way
We won't break, we won't die
It's just a moment of change
All we are, all we are, is everything that's right

This time I decided to blog about a very sensitive and meaningful topic of friendship. Lately it seems like as we get older, we start to change. In a good way or bad, that's for you to decide. And as we go through that life altering phase, we have to check whether the people around us are in par with whatever we're doing. We have to check if the new us can be accepted by them.

Maybe the new you is something your trying out with one eye closed. And whether you know it or not, you need your best friend to tell you that you're turning into an ass. That's one of the reasons they're for. A person who can point out a wrong for the sake of love and only do it to save your sorry ass. At times you can't fully see who you're going to be and you need another set of eyes to help you out.

Sometimes its not the new us that causes some mayhem, its our original self that has been hiding. As humans who strike for relation in other humans, we need to know one crucial thing, acceptance in flaw is part of friendship. But what if that flaw that you have been pushing aside finally gets to you? What if that flaw started to grow to a point where you can't take it anymore?

See? Sometimes its the old you and not the new you that's starting trouble.

You know how to see a great friendship? It's the kind of friendship that still holds together after the mayhem. If you could forgive each other after all that shit and create a better more understanding relationship while learning from your mistakes, that's the kind of friendship that's solid. At times the hardship, that glitch in your friendship is the thing that's gonna make it stronger.

So.... What are you waiting?

Indulging in the beats of: Fighter by Christina Aguilera

Chou