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Intentions

Turn around, bright eyes

Every now and then I fall apart

And I need you now tonight

Have you ever thought of the intentions towards something you do? Not something you do to yourself but for someone else. Regardless if its your best friend, a distant friend, an old friend or just a person you knew that you rarely talk to. So let me break it down to 2 general reasons why you do something.

1) you do it cause it's the right thing to do
2) you do it cause you care

Reason 1 refers to doing something because its a humane thing to do. Not doing it makes you look like you're a heartless person. Not doing it makes it look like you don't have any connection towards that person. Not doing it makes you look like an ass. So you do it.... Cause it's the right thing to do with emotions attached.

Reason number 2 is related mostly to your emotion. You do it cause you deeply care for that person or you really love that person. When deciding whether to do it or not, it's a no brainer. Thinking is not required because you have a deep emotion to that person and in that moment that person needs you.

So the next time you decide to lend a hand, say your condolences, give a present or just being there for somebody during a time of need, think of why you're doing it. I hope its reason number 2.

Indulging in the beats of: Beautiful by Akon & Dulce Maria

Chou

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