Stability is the Key

It's been too long
since you been in my arms
and even though i know
you're the one

I feel the space in between

You wanna know why the other guy rarely gets to be the boyfriend? You must be thinking, why can't she just leave him and hook up with me? She's been showing interest and all. Then why is she still with him and I'm left tagging along?

The answer- Security

The only advantage the bf has over the other guy is that he is able to give security. Girls need guys who can give them love, care and support whenever they need it. Even if they don't have enough of it, they still in some way give it to the girls.

Not the type of guys who only give when they want to give. According to their time and mood.

Girls need to know that by the end of the day, that boy will be there for her. And they usually find that quality in the boy they start a relationship with, the boyfriend.

So if you're the other guy, ask yourself, if she broke up with the bf and hooked up with you, will you take that responsibility of being there for her when she needs it? Can you go through with it?

If the answer is NO, then there is a reason why you're the other guy and not the boyfriend.

Indulging in the beats of : I'm still here by Cady Groves

Chou

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