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We're pretty and sick
We're young and we're bored

You know, just when you think you have met every type of person in the world, you meet new people with even more different personalities. But have you ever observed personalities that work together in a group and how it looks from an outsider? Sometimes who people are personally and how they are with their friends are totally different. With me, I can safely say that how you meet me in private is exactly the same as how you meet me when I’m around my companions. 

Cliques are mostly associated my girls, a group of friends that spend most of their time together in awesome bonding sessions where nobody in the group is left behind. Calling a group of boys as a clique sounds freaking weird. So what I call it after much time hanging out with boys is brotherhood. 

A brotherhood is usually stronger than a clique and the bond is much deeper which is good because The Bro Code is taken seriously. With a brotherhood, from my observation, is that usually everyone in the group would have high egos. Lowering that ego for anyone outside the group would cause some teasing which are anything that involves affection or deep emotion.

Being extra friendly to an outsider, helping an outsider while being with your brothers and being intimate with an outsider in front of your brothers are just some lowering ego activities.  Some of the boys still do these things but not to an audience of their brothers or else major smack talking would start afterward.  And you know that boy’s smack talking can be as painful as the bitch gossip sessions girls do.

It’s hard for a brotherhood to open up to an outsider. It takes a lot of time, especially if you are a member of the opposite sex. Now don’t get me started about getting intimate with a member of a brotherhood. That’s a whole different patience cycle you have to go through. 

So there you go another of my analytical theory about boys. It’s just from my observation so don’t take it so seriously lah kan.

Indulging in the beats of : Blow by Kesha

Chou

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